“This is Joshua Junior’s story.”

Josh Jones (image credit: Joshua Jones, Jr.)

Josh Jones has lived through poverty, dysfunction, disability and homelessness. He’s one of the most resilient, determined, positive,  helpful and loving people that I know. We met when I was a case manager in a church-based assistance ministry and he was my client. But he very quickly became my friend and my encourager.

Josh wrote a book, Joshua Jones Jr. Story, dedicated to his mom, whom he takes care of. Proceeds from the book will help both Josh and his mom. I just ordered my copy. I hope you will, too. Here’s an excerpt that has me eager to read more:

Hi! My name is Joshua Jones, Jr. This is Joshua Junior’s story.

I’d like to tell you a little bit about myself.  I was born May 15, 1967, to Christine Harrelson and Joshua Jones, Sr. of Mebane, North Carolina.

We have a very dysfunctional family.  We have five children, two girls and three boys.  I’m the knee baby. All five children’s names is Tony L.  Jones, Angela Patricia Jones, Demetrious Flythe, Marvin Ray Jones.

We lived on Highway 49 in Mebane, North Carolina, where we were a farmer’s children. We didn’t have much.  We were poor, and we had to work like human slaves at my daddy’s farm, Amy Crawford’s farm.

My mama was a housewife.  She made sure that we had something to eat.  She was the world’s bestest cook that you could ever meet. She always helped people; she always fed every body.  She got up every morning at 5:30 seven days a week.  We had fatback meat, molasses gravy, grits, oatmeal–whatever was in the refrigerator, Christine Harrelson cooked it. By the way, she divorced Joshua Jones, Sr. in 1989 and went back to her maiden name.

Well, she left him several times, so we had to go live with Lavinia Harrelson and Coy Harrelson which are both deceased now.  They stayed at 3916 Lawson Road, Cedar Grove, North Carolina.  Well we did that for a long time.  The last time she left him, I think it was in ’78, we left that morning.  She said, ‘Y’all get some bags. Go in there and get some Byrd’s bags, we got to go, I’m leaving your daddy.’ We said, ‘Oh, Lord.’  Every time we left our daddy, we’d get to the road and get down the road, Reverend Hal Brooks would pull up: ‘Y’all need a ride?’  She always left on a Sunday.  I never understood that.

I look forward to reading more of the story of my friend Josh. Even in the dark, he always sees the light. I love you, Josh. I’m grateful to be your friend.

Living wage and fair market rent

I was talking to someone recently about employment and housing. How do you know the minimum hourly wage that you need to earn and what amount should you expect to pay for rent? Here are some links for Living Wage (the hourly rate that an individual must earn to support themselves or their family, if they are the sole provider and are working full-time) and Fair Market Rent (the amount that is required to rent a modest and standard apartment): Living Wage, Fair Market Rent.

Coincidentally, I just finished re-reading Barbara Ehrenreich’s Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America.

News & Record editorial: IRC a bright ray of hope

…the IRC is a lot like its neighbor, the J. Douglas Galyon Depot, connecting clients to the means to get from here to there through an impressive assortment of partner agencies.

A recent visit on a gray, rainy day revealed a full house of homeless clients, some conferring quietly with center staff, others socializing as they waited to be seen. Two huge, brightly lit Christmas trees stood in opposite corners of the reception area. On a big, white, dry-erase board was a quote for the day, which read in part, “Remember, every day is a new day.”

That doesn’t necessarily mean every day is a good day. Two clients had gotten into a shouting match that very morning. But the overall vibe at the IRC is distinctly upbeat and hopeful.

A client can get mail there, wash laundry, take a shower, get a haircut and enroll in job-hunting courses, including computer training. The center helps locate temporary shelter and permanent housing for clients. It refers those who want and need it to drug treatment and counseling.

In return, clients help take care of the IRC. They keep it clean. They report misconduct. They created many of the paintings on the IRC’s walls as well as the sculpted handles on the plate-glass front doors. What’s more, fully a third of the 2,000 weekly volunteer hours at the center are filled by homeless workers.

The new facility has been open at its permanent location on Washington Street only for eight months. But it already is making a measurable difference: 3,776 loads of laundry, 2,652 showers, 3,432 nurse visits and 121 full-time permanent jobs found since opening in May, says IRC Executive Director Liz Seymour…

>> Read all of Editorial: Bright ray of hope at News-Record.com