Kevin Barbieux caused a commotion when he posted this on Facebook:
“For the love of God people, stop giving money to drunken panhandlers. These panhandlers are alcoholics and drug addicts. The money you give them will only go towards more alcohol and drugs, enabling their disease. With your money, these panhandlers will spend the rest of the day drunk, harassing other people, and interfering with other homeless people who are actually making attempts to get off streets.”
Some of Kevin’s FB friends were offended by his perspective and commented to tell him so. But Kevin told them that he knows what he’s talking about:
“Both of my grandfathers were alcoholics, I became homeless the first time at the age of 21, and have been in and out of homelessness the past 29 years. I have known more drunks and addicts than you’d ever imagine. I’ve witnessed people die from their addictions…”
And he speaks truth:
“There is sympathy for people hurting and struggling. But in your sympathy for them you have to maintain your objectivity. If someone was displaying suicidal tendencies and then they asked to borrow your gun, you wouldn’t really let them have it would you? Caring for, caring about others is more than just giving in to their wants and desires. Alcohol is slowly but surely killing these panhandling drunks, and as much as it alleviates their immediate pain and desires, giving them access to more drink is not doing them any favors.”
I talked to a crack addict the other day who hasn’t let the 100°F heat discourage him from flying a sign. It makes me frustrated. And sad. I love the addicts and alcoholics in my life, but I hate addiction. Everyone has their own path to recovery and I pray for them to find it. But I will not fund addiction. As Kevin says, it’s like handing a loaded gun to someone who’s trying to commit suicide.
