Dorothy Gordon and one of her children at the downtown library; Image source: News-Record.com; Image credit: Nelson Kepley

Another homeless family, walking the streets of downtown Greensboro

While I was doing StreetWatch outreach at a homeless tent city this week, I got phone calls about two homeless families — a single dad with a 7-year old and a single mom with a 5-year old — who had nowhere to go. Shelters were full. They always are. They were out of options. I had no answers. I prayed on the phone with the friend who’d called on their behalf, that God would make a way where’s there no way, and the homeless men in the circle around me listened quietly. I starting crying during the prayer and I didn’t stop until after the phone call ended. I couldn’t stop thinking about the newly-evicted mom who was going to get her child from school, and not have anywhere to go from there. No home. Homeless. Not even a shelter to stay in. How frightening for a child! How terrifying for a mom!

Dorothy Gordon and one of her children at the downtown library; Image source: News-Record.com; Image credit: Nelson Kepley

It didn’t even occur to me at the time (although I knew it already) that there are moms and dads with kids who are actually in the shelter, but who still have nowhere to go all day long. You can’t stay at the shelter during the day, even if you have nowhere to go and no way to get there. Those are the rules. Here’s one mom’s story:

Maybe you remember this image.

A woman pushing a stroller and holding the tiniest of umbrellas, her three small children in tow as the rain pelted them.

That picture ran in the News & Record two weeks ago, and at the time, it seemed mundane enough. Just a family caught in a downpour.

A reader who recognized them informed us otherwise.

Dorothy Gordon and her kids weren’t trying to get home. They were already there.

On the streets.

>> View photo and story at News-Record.com

Update, 6/4/2012: Hopeful news: I got a call from a friend about The Nurturing Center, a new child care program for homeless children. They have contacted Dorothy Gordon to see if they can help. :)

05/24/2012: Going deep into the woods in search of another homeless camp.

StreetWatch May 17-24, 2012: GPD, baseball, community garden, tent city, homeless bunny & more!

We’ve been busy on StreetWatch this past week. Visiting homeless camps in Eastern Division with GPD Officer Dator; handing out our brochures at a Grasshoppers game during the Homerun for Homelessness; planting a second garden at the FM tent city; looking for new camps in Southern Division (thanks, Officer Clark!) and more. Photos…

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Another homeless woman sleeps outside in Greensboro

I just got a call from a homeless woman who has no place to go. Last night, she slept in a parking garage downtown. She had no sleeping bag. No blankets. She was cold. Temperatures were in the 50′s last night. Concrete makes a cold, hard bed.

The women’s winter shelter closed at the end of March. The Greensboro Urban Ministry shelter is full. She’s applied to the Salvation Army’s shelter program, but hasn’t gotten in there, either. There are no other shelters in Greensboro.

A nurse at the IRC (a friend of mine) suggested she call me. Our StreetWatch ministry provides tents and sleeping bags for homeless people who sleep outside. She asked me for blankets and she wanted to know where would be a safe location for her to sleep? And quite honestly, I didn’t know what to tell her.

I’ve had so many calls lately about homeless women on the street in Greensboro. They all need someplace to stay. I get calls from the homeless women themselves, calls from police officers, calls from homeless service providers. The shelters are full, what are the options? Well, not many that I know of.

There are women’s shelters in other towns nearby, but that’s not an option for many of these women, for various reasons. I’ve suggested to all of them that they go to the IRC, which has a housing program, but what I hear back is that unless they have an income, there’s no housing available. (Makes sense and I knew that, but I remain hopeful that someone will have housing vouchers!)

Most of the homeless women who sleep outside have a boyfriend or husband. If they weren’t with a partner when they became homeless, they find one quickly. I hear from many women that companionship and safety are very important when you live on the street. A woman living outside alone is much more vulnerable.

I’m not sure what to tell the lady who called me today. There are two tent cities within walking distance of downtown, but neither has single women living there and at both places, the residents have a voice in who joins their community, so there’s no guarantee that either will be the right fit for her. I’m not sure if she’d prefer community life or a place to herself. And it’s not always easy to find a safe, legal place to camp. (Property owners have given permission for homeless people to camp on the land where the tent cities are located.)

I’m about to go to the StreetWatch storage unit to pick up blankets and a sleeping bag and go find this lady. I still don’t know where she’ll sleep tonight. Another homeless woman sleeping outside in Greensboro. That’s messed up. We need a women’s shelter. Well, we need more shelter space for homeless people, period. But women, especially, do not need to be living outside. And women living alone on the street? That should just never, ever happen.

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“I’ve never done this before.”

I got a call from a homeless man who needs a tent. A friend who works at the day center suggested he call me. We talked on the phone a couple of times, I gave him walking directions to a place he’d heard that he could safely and legally camp, and he went and checked it out and called me back.

He’d been offered a sleeping bag by the guy at the day center, so I told him that our StreetWatch team could come out in the morning and bring him a tent, a tarp and one of the bags we usually give out, which has food, utensils, water, hygiene items, toilet paper and socks. And then I asked, “What else can you think of that you need?” He paused for a moment and then said, “I don’t know. I’ve never done this before.” All I could think to say was, “I’m sorry. I’m so sorry.” I was so overwhelmed with sadness for him.

They just keep on coming…

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A bike for a beer & more: Tweets from the street, 3/21-3/23/2012

Tweets I sent while doing StreetWatch homeless outreach this past week:

23 Mar 2012: Talked to homeless vets dishonorably discharged for mental illness/addiction related issues. Not eligible for VA treatment. :(

23 Mar 2012: Hanging out in the shade behind a store talking with 4 homeless guys about jobs, family, military & cops.

22 Mar 2012: Ever wonder about the permits the homeless people on the corner are wearing? Panhandling 101, Greensboro Style http://bit.ly/GNaBY9
Background: Several people we saw this week had panhandling charges. There are lots of rules and it can get complicated.

22 Mar 2012: Homeless lady went to jail for panhandling without permit. Got out. Went back to her corner. Same cop saw her. Back in jail within hours.
Update: Second arrest was for Failure To Appear on an earlier charge.

22 Mar 2012: Humbled by compassion of property management staffer for homeless men whose camp has to go. Doing his job as mercifully as possible.

22 Mar 2012: Grateful for Greensboro Police officer who took homeless man to rehab in January; visits him, stays in touch with family.

21 Mar 2012: Talked to a homeless guy today who sold his bicycle for $2.50 to buy a 40 oz beer. And it seemed normal to him. :(